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Monday, April 13, 2009

Send Away the Little Children

 
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The Sparrow and the Crow
By William Fitzsimmons
If You Would Come Back Home
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Just yesterday in church service I remember thinking, "Oh, come on, parents!  Take your kids to children's church, so the pastor doesn't have to compete with wailing during his sermon!"  Then today Stanley Hauerwas punched me in the face with this:

In many of our modern, sophisticated congregations, children are often viewed as distractions.  We tolerate children only the extent they become "adults" like us.  Adult members sometimes complain that they cannot pay attention to the sermon, they cannot listen to the beautiful music, when fidgety children are beside them in the pews.  "Send them away," many adults say.  Create "Children's Church" so these distracting children can be removed in order that we adults can pay attention.

Interestingly, Jesus put a child in the center of his disciples,"in the midst of them," in order to help them pay attention.  The child, in Jesus' mind, was not an annoying distraction.  The child was a last-ditch effort by God to help the disciples pay attention to the odd nature of God's kingdom.  (Resident Aliens, 96)

Of course, I'll bet that children probably enjoy children's church better than the "boring" (sometimes) adult service.  But that's usually not our true intention for putting them down there.  Especially at Parkade where we've frequently emphasized a desire to be an inter-generational congregation, our call to "Send away the little children" seems to stand in unfortunate opposition to our King.

 

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My problem with the children's churches are that they are sent there when they are young, but when they are older and should know better than to act up, they are still incapable of sitting still and listening through the regular, "adult" service. My church seems to have a reasonable solution to the problem. At the back of the church, there is an area called the cry room that parents can go with their children when they are having a fit. The room is mostly soundproof, with speakers and a glass front so those inside can see and hear what is going on. Once the child has calmed down enough to stop wailing and sit quietly, the parents can rejoin the congregation or choose to stay in the room. It is still segregating them, but I think it is a better solution than sending them to a special children's church. Just my two cents. =)
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